Before I discovered sarging my skills with the opposite sex left a lot to be desired. I had occasionally managed to pick up girls at the local night club, but this was probably down to pot luck as my knowledge of the venusian arts was almost nonexistent.
Like most of the guys I used to hang around with, I always had difficulty with meeting women and finding a way to progress the relationship along a sexual route. Sure – women wanted to spend time with me, said I was funny, even said what a great husband I’d make, but somehow I always seemed to end up in the good old friends zone. Every time I forced myself to declare my true feelings for a woman she would get all weirded out and run for the hills. At the same time I would see guys who were abusive assholes, and not exactly Brad Pitt in the looks department, manage to hook up with and date some of the most beautiful, intelligent women I had ever met (usually the same ones that rejected me after three months of taking them out and telling them how special they were!) I’m sure you’re with me here when I say THIS FRUSTRATED THE HELL OUT OF ME!!! I mean, what could be possibly be going on here?
Well, to sum it up with one word: EMOTIONS, but more on that later. Anyway, I decided that I was going to do absolutely whatever it would take to get this part of my life handled – no more hiding behind my problems, no more pretending that I was just going through a “dry spell”, no more punching the door when my “soul mate” that I had been chasing for weeks on end rejected me for some lowlife waster, no more telling myself that I’m a decent guy and I’ll definitely find a good woman one day. Nope, the time had come to take ACTION, it was time to EVOLVE, it was time to start SARGING.
So…. what did I do?
Well, just like any other computer nerd I hit the internet. I read and read and read, I listened to dozens of audio programs and I watched many videos. It wasn’t long before I found all the top gurus – there was David Deangelo, famed for his Cocky/Funny style; there was Mystery and The Mystery Method, which involved a step by step algorithm as he likes to put it; there was Ross Jeffries, who used Neuro Linguistic Programming like a sort of covert seductive hypnosis; and there were many more wannabe gurus hot on their heels.
My progress at first was slow, painful and at times darn right humiliating! I lost count of the number of times I got responses like F**K OFF!!!, why are you talking to me?, you’re boring me, I’ve got a boyfriend, you’re too short etc, etc. Even though this was difficult at first, it did serve to thicken my skin so to speak, and eventually I became desensitized to it.
At this point I’d moved beyond just trying to use “magic pickup lines” and started to and started to pay attention to other important key areas like fashion and grooming, and more importantly BODY LANGUAGE. Once I got these handled I started to make progress – women would actually be interested in what I had to say and I eventually got my first number close. This quickly snowballed into more numbers as my confidence began to grow (Neil Strauss, author of The Game says “Success Breeds Confidence”) and eventually, I got my first date after about 6 months of trial and error.
Having built upon that initial success, the position I’m in today is VERY different from when I started. Now, I’m not claiming that I can get any girl I desire, but….. I can confidently say that I can go out sarging on a Friday or Saturday night and get at least 1 solid phone number that will lead to a date (often referred to as a meet up or day 2 in the pickup community). Think about that for a moment – how would it feel to know that you can attract and date at least one new high quality woman every single week? Well I can tell you right now that nothing I know of can compare to how it feels to have this kind of power and I’m going to share with you some of the top sarging tips and tactics that helped me in the following posts.
