Now, before we start I’d like to say that I am not somebody special in any way. I am not rich, I am not tall (actually I’m rather short for a guy at just 5 feet, 5 inches) and my looks can be described as about average. In fact, if you are struggling with women right now the only thing that separates you from me at this moment is knowledge, and correct application of that knowledge (experience in other words). That’s it! I honestly believe that with the right tools, attitude and experience you could easily be enjoying the same level of success as I’ve come to enjoy as part of my everyday reality. What’s more, I believe that you could do it in much less time.
Also, like I said in my previous post, having this part of your life under control really feels awesome! Just think of all the benefits:-
No more loneliness — You really can end up spending your free time with a girl you are genuinely attracted to. No more settling for any girl that you can get because you don’t think you can do any better. You can get whatever you want in life if you commit to improving yourself.
Respect from your buddies — At first my mates laughed at me and probably thought that I was full of Sh1t because I was spouting theory about sarging this and pickup that, but that was because I didn’t have any results at the time to back it up. But boy did their attitude change when I hit my breakthrough point and everything started taking off! These days I find myself being followed around by guys I don’t even know, trying and figure out what I’m doing.
Increase in confidence and self esteem — Confidence comes from entering into a situation and knowing that you can handle whatever happens. When you approach a group of women with several hundred approaches under your belt you tend to naturally radiate a sort of cool, calm energy – and they can literally smell it on you!!! I don’t know whether it’s the Bond-like swagger, the cheeky grin or the hook you throw for your opener, but all I know is that once you have enough experience, you enter a sort of flow state and almost never get blown out.
Security — Once you get good at pickup you no longer have any insecurity about losing your vivacious, pretty, outgoing girlfriend. Both you and her understand that you could easily go out at the weekend and get a couple more numbers if you wanted to. In fact, this tends to drastically increase your value in her eyes, which makes her want to stick around you more.
